电影《Queenpins》中有一幕引起很多网友的讨论。
飞机上，一位妈妈对坐在窗边的男人说：Hey sorry, would you mind if we switched seats, just for this last part, she really likes to watch out the window as we land, and it helps calm her down.
这位男人回答道：yeah, no even if I wanted to switch, I thinks it’s more important that your daughter learn a valuable lesson that’s not how the world works you know, you don’t always get your way.
虽然这位男人语气很好，网友们也在讨论不能道德绑架等等说辞。
我也认同这位男人所说，这个世界不是如我们所想怎样就怎样，每个人在成长过程中都常常会感受到的确如此。
但也正因为这个世界不是如我们所愿，我更愿意去根据自己力所能及去传递一些善意，而不是随时想着对一位陌生人或身边的人说教。
真的没那个必要。